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Today’s questions are all over the map; from music to making every moment count. It’s late afternoon after a late, late evening of answering mail so I might as well continue. If you don’t see your letter answered try and be patient. There’s quite a stack here. Some questions are so close to others I’ve already answered that you might look over other installments of Ask Rod to see if your query has already been covered.

NOT QUITE OUR TOWN

I was reading your responses to e-mails and was encouraged to find information about your music publications. I am a cabaret singer, and a big fan of Glenn Yarbrough and your songs he recorded. I'm also enjoying my first visit to your site.

I'm working on a new show, and was listening to "Love Let Me Not Hunger" which is an absolutely beautiful song. On closer examination, I noticed it was from a musical production of "Our Town." Any details, and what are the other songs from that production? I'm very curious.

Congratulations on the new book, and the prospects for performing again. I look forward to the details. Matt Leahy, NYC


Hello, again. After reading your response concerning my question about sheet music (Yes, I'm the girl who hung out at the drug store.), I got the feeling that you are trying very hard to accomodate all our needs. I appreciate it very much and am very excited about receiving "The Single Man" in the future. I enjoy the time I spend at my old upright piano and knowing one of your songs would make it even better.

Your comments to my question reminded me of my childhood friend whose father owned one of the two drug stores in our town (I bought your books at the other one years later.). On hot summer days, we often went into her grandfather's drug store to rest. We fixed ourselves cherry Cokes at the soda fountain (actually, we had a little Coke with the cherry syrup.) then we lingered as long as he would let us because it was cool.
If he got busy (he was a pharmacist), we could fix ourselves another and check out the new cologne at the cosmetics counter (Can you imagine what we smelled like?). Now whenever I leave ASPTL after browsing for a while, I wish I had a cherry Coke, like the good ones we had back then. ASPTL is like that, isn't it? A cool place to come back to again and again.

By the way, what's with the beard? You have such a handsome face, why hide it? Yes, I do know it's handsome because I saw you in New Orleans at the Repertory Theatre in New Orleans in 1971. To be honest, I like the beard. I just didn't expect you to have it.

I'm off to play my piano for a while. Take care and thanks, again, for everything. Remember that you are appreciated. Cloud aka Diann.


Dear Matt & Diann, I love the way Glenn Yarbrough sings "Love Let Me Not Hunger". At the time it was written I was working on a musical adaptation of "Our Town" which was later abandoned when my singing and performing career took off.

Some time ago I promised that words and music to both "Love Let Me Not Hunger" and "The Single Man" would be put on ‘the site’. Like a few other well intentioned promises it never happened. In the coming week, we’ll give it another try. As for the new book, read on. Regards, Rod



NEW BOOK "A SAFE PLACE TO LAND"

Rod, I love your writing. When will your new book be out? I am anxious to buy a copy of it. I just was introduced to your work by a near and dear friend of mine and I will from that day on..be an avid fan. You are wonderful. Sincerely Roberta

I have been a fan since I was 17 years old and read the poem "Eighteen". I have passed the love of your poetry to my son as well as his friends, who are now 17 and 18. They were amazed at how your poetry has the power to transcend time, especially in the times that our youth are living now. I am so happy that you will have a new book out soon. I will be standing in line at the book store the day it arrives. Thank you for being such an inspiration to young and old alike. The Binkoski Family

Dear Rod, Thank you for sharing some of the poems in your new book "A Safe Place To Land" with us even before it is published. I think it is the most moving, erotic and sexually inviting work you have ever produced. When will it be published?

Dear Roberta, Tom & The Binkowski Family. If things go as planned "A Safe Place To Land" should be out in the fall of 1999. In addition to the text, first edition copies will include a CD with a reading of the complete work. The exact publishing date will be announced here and first copies will be made available to Flight Plan readers.

MAKING THE DAYS COUNT

Dear Rod, I’m 20 and have been reading your poems since I was 10. That's a bit too early but the things I thought about 10 years ago are different from what I perceive now... as I read your poems again. If they were music, classic would be the word...and they are music. For so long I wondered if there would ever be a chance to talk with you, now I feel I am. Just now I’ve begun to realize that things do change very quickly without us knowing it consciously.

Perhaps I have grown too fast, or perhaps I am made to be so. There were times when it seemed like I had had enough, but your poems always open a window if my doors are shut. Thank you for that. Chai


Dear Chai, Thank you for a nice letter. It’ hard to be alive at this time and place without feeling the energy in everything passing too quickly. A lot faster, in fact, than most 20 or 60 year olds are able to handle. We do what we can with what we’ve got. Every day I become more aware of the time I’ve wasted in my own life, but I’m determined not to let that recognition slow me or cause me to waste more precious hours.. Hang on, it can be a hard ride. Obviously the road leads somewhere or it wouldn’t be here to follow.

All the best to all of you as the last November leaves begin to fall.

                                - RM 11/24/98

notable birthdays Charles Henn Alkan o Shirley Chisholm o Harriet Cohen o Winston Churchill o Robert Guillaume o Carl Lowe o Radu Lupu o Virginia Mayo o Gordon Parks o Noel Paul Stookey o Mark Twain o Walter Weller o Efrem Zimbalist Jr.
Rod's random thoughts Understanding is seldom tied to language.

We pause to argue, but seldom to think.

Long silences meant to stretch a conversation can sever it instead.

Dreams should not be allowed to die until reality replaces them.

LOOKING STRAIGHT AHEAD

I will not let a war or warriors
kill my thirst
or appetite for love.
Though I do not travel into battle
with roses in the barrel
of my gun
I still go forward into life
looking straight ahead.

War worries me.
Not because
the generals lie to us.
I worry
that as each day moves
beneath the cloud of autumn
we may be lying to ourselves
enough to kill what truth existed
when we started out.

I worry that
beneath our helmets
our heads are only capable
of hating,
that further down
in our anatomy
we’ve lost the open space
within each heart set aside
for love.

I will not let this war
or any others
kill my appetite for caring.
I’ll try to keep some open spaces
beneath and underneath
my breastplate
for the next tomorrow.
Another in my helmet.
There will always be
room for new ideas
to rattle, bounce and jog along.

                                - from "Beyond the Boardwalk"

© 1984, 1988, 1998 by Stanyan Music Group & Rod McKuen. All Rights Reserved
Birthday research by Wade Alexander
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