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A Thought for Today

Love is the bed you imagine others lie in, when you find yourself alone.

 

TO BEGIN WITH

Sinatra, Dolly Parton and the loss of George Carlin are among the topics covered in this mail this week. Hard to believe that in a couple of days we’ll be closing out the month of June, relegating the first half of 2008 to the history books.

Time doesn’t walk these days, it runs like hell.

.ASK ROD

GEORGE CARLIN

Dear Rod, I thought of you this past week when I heard that George Carlin had passed away. I remembered when the two of you had a TV series together so I’m really sorry for your loss. Roseanne Wiley, Omaha Nebraska

Dear Roseanne, The death of George Carlin is everyone’s loss. He was one of the good guys and his use of American idioms and language was inspiring. Seinfeld had a moving tribute to George last week in the Los Angeles Times and the actor and comedian Richard Beltzer spoke with great affection of him a few nights ago on Letterman.

Beltzer was on the show to plug a new HBO Special but used his allotted time to praise Carlin’s work and generosity; which was in itself a generous act by the talented Beltzer who has parlayed his own unusual voice and dry wit into a long running role on Law & Order.

In the good old days of variety television George and I were part of a team (that included Richard Pryor and John Davidson) producer Bob Banner put together as a summer replacement for The Kraft Music Hall. We were kind of like a family and despite the pressure of doing a new show each week from scratch we had good times and a mutual respect for each other’s work. One of the more interesting aspects of working so closely with Pryor and Carlin was the chance to watch each of them as they developed their unique styles.

This was TV presented during The Family Hour and both Richard and George were able to tailor their ‘push the envelope’ styles accordingly. Carlin and Pryor were fun and easy to hang out with and it was a terrific time to be young and on the way up in Hollywood.

While waiting around the set George and I would play a game he called “Let’s Pretend.” Let’s pretend we’re Hope & Crosby on ‘The Road to Nowhere’ or Let’s pretend we’re two deep-sea divers without a clue and no spears or Let’s pretend it’s Inauguration Day and we’re the two losing candidates for president and vice watching the winners being sworn in. Gags a-plenty, some good, some awful, would come out of such made-up situations. We even talked about writing the script for a flick, but never did.

The last time I saw George was in the parking lot of a now defunct record store. We exchanged numbers and promised to stay closer in touch, but in a busy business where careers usually take place over pleasure neither of us made that first call. He did leave me with a final Let’s Pretend: Let’s pretend we’re hosts on QVC and can’t stand the product we’re pushing. Beltzer told Letterman that George had wanted his epitaph to read, “he was around here someplace a few minutes ago.”

ROSES, ROADS AND TRAINS

Dear Rod: Some time in 1967 or 1968 a neighbor let me hear The Sea & The Earth albums. I was hooked and fell in love with all your books and albums. “Momma said it’s just a road, but she knew….” The freeway cut my Uncles farm and you so nailed it with that poem true to form. I lived all those words because I spent so much of my summer time there in my youth. My girlfriend and I saw you 2 or 3 times in Mpls. Minn. Each time I would cut a fresh rose from my father’s garden and she would carry it down and hand it up to you during the concert. It was a very small gift of thanks, to give you…. for your music that so stamped me indelibly and softly and for your words that created such vivid pictures in my minds eye and spoke to my heart. I am grateful for your gift and to have had this opportunity to say….. Thank You.

Did you ever get to see Frank Sinatra’s model train lay out in his basement?

Please, Just once more, come back to Mpls. Bring your 2 wooden stools, your poems and songs and do one more show. Joseph Vanda


Dear Joseph, Thanks for the memories of "The Day They Built the Road" and for the tale of the single rose. No doubt about it, my friends and fans around the world are a gentle and thoughtful bunch –– and even a tad romantic.

I spent many a happy and nearly always wet midnight till dawn playing trains with Frank. He had a super set with endless tracks. It wasn’t in the basement but on the main floor of the compound. It started off in one room but his “set” finally grew large enough to take up two and a half rooms. Ordering a drink was fun because one of his slow freights would wind its way to the bar and a flatcar would bring the drink back.

Over the years whenever my tours took me to exotic places I always looked for an engine or railcar to add to his already remarkable collection. One of my proudest moments was finding a replica of The Orient Express in Paris and I picked it up one year for his birthday. Sinatra was a good friend, always there for so many people. I'll always be grateful that he was there for me when I needed his friendship or council and I hope he felt the same about me and mine.

What a pleasure it is these days to be able to use a Sinatra stamp on all my snail mail. I think Frank would be very proud of the way Tina, Nancy and Frank Jr. continue to keep his life and legacy in the spotlight.

As to appearing in Minnesota again, I remain tanned and ready. As you know over the years I’ve played the Minneapolis/St. Paul area often. I’ve also written extensively about your city, most notably in “Moment to Moment.”

All My Best to you and yours. Sincerely, Rod

PS: Speaking of trains, here’s a pic our Webmaster Ken Blackie took while on vacation in Cape Town recently. This engine resides in a local museum there. Sad that train travel has been relegated to museum status. I loved train travel and still do.

HIT ‘EM IN THE HEAD WITH LOVE

I am looking for a copy of your poem that contains the line: “the next time somebody knocks me down, I’m going to get back up and hit them in the head with love” Can you please tell me where I can find that poem? Thank you. Jan

Dear Jan, You’re speaking about a song rather than a poem. I wrote Hit ‘Em In The Head With Love as part of my first album of original songs for Warner Bros. Records. The LP titled “New Ballads was released in 1970. Other songs in the collection included Rock Gently, As I Love My Own, I’m Not Afraid and Philadelphia. Here are the words to ‘Hit ‘Em.’

HIT ‘EM IN THE HEAD WITH LOVE

Some towns have so many islands
you need a boat to go from block to block
and since the sand goes on getting deeper
I’m building my home upon a rock.
And the next time somebody comes along
and knocks me down I’m gonna get up
and Hit ‘Em In The Head With Love.

I know some people who ain’t much for action
they’d rather sit around and merely talk.
But talk is cheap the days are gettin’ shorter
so I’m buildin’ my home upon a rock.
And the next time somebody comes along
and knocks me down I’m gonna get up
and Hit ‘Em In The Head With Love.

I got a bed full of feathers
a hole or two in nearly every sock.
But I don’t owe nobody nothin’
so I’m building my home upon a rock.
And the next time somebody comes along
and knocks me down I’m gonna get up
and Hit ‘Em In The Head With Love.

I’m crazy for crossword puzzles
so I got my dictionary out of hock
and since the nights are gettin’ longer and longer
I buildin’ my home upon a rock.
And the next time somebody comes along
to knock me down I’m gonna get up
and Hit ‘Em In The Head With Love.

Words & music by Rod McKuen © 1969, 1970 by Rod McKuen & The Stanyan Music Group Copyright renewed.

All My Best to you Jan. Warmly, Rod.

DOLLY PARTON

Dear Mr. McKuen, Allow me to start by saying how much of a fan of your work I am. You have been such a huge inspiration in my life. I follow your writings with great enthusiasm.

I believe you appeared on the Dolly Parton show some years ago (A show that I very much enjoyed!), You sang a duet with Dolly but I have been unable to find out the name of the song. From what I can remember Dolly sang the line "Feelings, nothing more than feelings. Trying to forget my feelings of love" I was wondering if you could perhaps better inform me on a title and is it available on CD? I recently lost my very best friend and though her funeral has passed I would very much like to play this song in memory of her. I hope it is also not too bold of me to ask for an autographed picture of you as I have just finished converting one of my spare rooms into a music room and would very much appreciate an inspiration such as yourself to have a place there. I am 23 years old and am an avid fan of country music and poetry. Many thanks. Yours Sincerely, David Jackson, North Yorkshire, England

Dear David, Thanks for the nice words. My condolences on the loss of your friend.

Dolly and I did several duets when I appeared on her series but the song you are referring to is Morris Albert’s “Feelings.” A new 2 DVD set featuring half a dozen of Dolly’s best shows has just been released and I’m happy that the producers of the discs selected the one where I guested with Dolly as one of the six. Other entertainers featured on the DVD’s include The Everly Brothers, Ronnie Milsap, Kenny Rogers, Anne Murray, Linda Ronstadt and Emmy Lou Harris. You can order it from Stanyanhouse.com

Last year I had the pleasure of presenting The Johnny Mercer award to Dolly Parton at the annual Songwriter’s Hall of Fame dinner in New York. I’ll be writing over the summer about that event and experience on The Flight Plan and showing off some of the photos that were taken during the evening. Meanwhile I hope it’s enough to say that I’m a big C&W fan too and one who loves the indelible, incredible Dolly. One more thing David, you haven’t lived until DP looks deep into your eyes while singing I Will Always Love You. Warmest Regards, Rod.

UNITED AS ONE

Dear Mr. McKuen: I have a friend who has been trying to find a copy of the above poem. Please let me know where he can find a copy, or if one is available on the web. Thanks, Ruth Anne Blumenstein

Dear Ruth Anne, Wish I could help with your query but I haven't written a poem by that title. Perhaps your friend has the title or the author wrong. Thanks for writing and warmest regards. Rod

MAC ARTHUR PARK

Rod: Just wondering if you could tell me if you wrote “MacArthur’s Park” and if so what the lyrics represent? Thanks, Patti Davis

Dear Patti, My friend the great Jimmy Webb wrote McArthur Park and I’ve always felt the lyrics were pretty easy to understand, still it would be pretty presumptuous of me to offer an explanation of another man’s song. For the lyrics to McArthur Park and everything Jimmy check out his Website:

http://www.jimmywebb.com/

All My Best, Rod

RM 6/26/08

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Eric Ambler o Don Baylor o Danielle Brisebois o Mel Brooks o Maren Brown o Chayanne o John Cusack o Bruce Davison o King Henry VIII o Lester Flatt o Maureen Howard o George Lloyd o Ashley Montagu o Luigi Pirandello o Gilda Radner o Richard Rodgers o Jean Jacques Rousseau o Otis Skinner o John Wesley

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Rod's random thoughts The rattle of the street proves the worth of solitude.

The man who says, “I told you so” is making an excuse for not expressing his position clearly in the first place.

Praise is easier than criticism.

THE DAY THEY BUILT THE ROAD

All day we saw them coming,
the trucks and truckers,
the caterpillars
            and cat-skinners.
The foremen and the workmen,
the asphalt spreaders
in their dirty black trucks
who ate the green
with more precision
than the sharpest plow.

They’d cut
straight through
the northeast field
a month before.
The steam shovel harvest
lay there still,
         bent up cornstalks
boulders with their shins skinned.
The hide of the earth
split open and quartered.

And now they'd come
to finish off the job
to cut our lives up too.

Thinking about
the dogs I’d chased
down through the yellow corn,
the girls I’d walked
back home along the fence,
mostly the smell of the field
the song of the crows
the rattle of the field mice
on the new turned ground
made me stop watching them.

They were harvesters
and spoilers too
no different from the farmer
in the next field down the road.

Tomorrow
We’d start smelling gasoline
and diesel smoke
as the road
came crashing through.

Mama said
It’s just a road.
But she knew too
that with the coming of the road
our lives would change,
it wouldn’t be the same.
And it wasn’t.

-from the album "The Earth", 1969 & the book "And to Each Season", 1972

 
    AND FINALLY

This weekend those of us who knew and loved Sue Richardson use her birth date to celebrate an extraordinary woman who made our days brighter. And, here in America we are on our way to observing Independence Day –– and yes, it looks like my first beefsteak tomatoes of the season will make it in time for the holiday burgers.

RM / Holmby Hills, CA 27 June, 2008 5:35AM PDST

 
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