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A Thought for Today

Loneliness is the casualty of absence.

 

Dear Ken,

I've thought long and hard about a favorite song of Rod's that really does it for me, but I couldn't seem to choose one that was truly my favorite; it's just so hard to do. It's kind of like trying to select a diamond from someone who's holding a handful out to you. Each diamond is unique and beautiful, but they all look so wonderful that you simply can't make up your mind which one to take. Rod's words and music have done me in so many times over the years that I've lost count of those times long ago. So rather than tell you that this one is my favorite; I'll just say that it is one of several handfuls of Rod's songs that move me. This one does it for me.

When I hear Rod singing "The Beautiful Strangers," which he wrote for Frank Sinatra, I become nostalgic, my eyes mist over and I think back to a time many years ago when I was young, lonely, and searching. I too have needed, wanted, and found the love and warmth of strangers. Their numbers certainly weren't legion, but there were some, and all of them were beautiful, even the few who weren't. I'd like to think that what we found together, even for that brief moment, meant as much to them as it
did to me. We didn't use each other Ken; rather we needed each other at the time, and I'll be eternally grateful to those wonderful girls from my past who, as Rod wrote in the song, "taught me neon's just as nice as afternoon sunshine" ... it really is you know. I'll also always be grateful to Rod for finding just the right words and music to thank them for me.

Take care,

Larry

Happy Birthday, Larry, and thanks for the eloquent contribution. In my part of the world we take diamonds very seriously and I really like the analogy.

Rod and I are off on our sabbatical as from next week so I'll catch up with you all next month when we'll continue with this column. If you have a special McKuen song or poem drop me a line at ken@mckuen.com telling me all about it and I'll make sure the rest of the world hears about it.

                                     - Ken, Johannesburg, October 27

notable birthdays Larry Baillie o John Cleese o Fred DeCordova o Ruby Dee o Nanette Fabray o Peter Firth o Wayne Fontana o Lee Greenwood o Cleo Laine o Simon LeBon o Fran Lebowitz o Foy Lichtenstin o Marla Maples o Margaret Naylor o Sylvia Plath o Theodore Roosevelt o Carrie Snodgrass o Dylan Thomas o Robert White
Rod's random thoughts Autumn is the crown of every summer.

Even when the candle sputters, hope hides inside the flame ready to spring forward and jump out.

Only men of little importance keep others waiting.

THE BEAUTIFUL STRANGERS

All the beautiful strangers
who held me for a night
and fell down in the darkness
on pillows soft and white.

All the beautiful strangers
all in the afternoon
who praised my flat little stomach
and came back to my room.

All the beautiful strangers
who spoiled me for a time
and taught me neon's just as nice
as afternoon sunshine.

                      - © 1969 by Stanyan Music Group & Rod McKuen

© 1970, 1986, 1999 by Stanyan Music Group & Rod McKuen. All Rights Reserved
Birthday research by Wade Alexander o Poetry from the collection of Jay Hagan
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