11th & 12th September, 2006

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Photo by Edward Habib McKuen. ©2006 by Stanyan Audio Video Archives

A Thought for Today

Life in the company of cats is always sunnier and easier.

 

TO BEGIN WITH

Anniversaries are reminders, and this one of the terrible events of September 11, 2001 is as somber and heartbreaking as any in Americas history as a nation. There has been no shortage of poems, songs and tributes to the lives lost that day. I have been motivated enough in the eighteen hundred plus days since 9/11/01 but unable to write much of anything. The words just didn’t come.

The other day I finally set down the few words that make up today’s poem. First the mail.

.ASK ROD

MEMBERS OF THE FAMILY

TAZ

Monday will make it two months since my precious little Taz died. He was the my outlet and salvation when dark moods came along

I know this will all pass but tonight it weighs heavy on me. I work, do my volunteer work, garden, search high and low for a new puppy Yet the void just doesn't lessen. What the hell does it take to overcome the losses? Is there something I don't know about that helps a person move on? Ann


JUNIOR

My sweet little boy passed away in my arms today at 12:30PM. He had been ill all summer long.

Junior was born on September 9, 1994 in Alpha, NJ to my mommy kitty Speckles. We named him Franklin Junior after another cat we had at the time that was also a black and white with the mask. When Franklin passed away Junior was curled up with him in a chair in the TV room in Alpha.

I sang to Junior just before he passed on. I sang the Rod McKuen song Every Loner Has To Go Alone ..."Animals and Angels are the same..." He seemed to be at peace and just took one last breath. I am very sad as he was my most favorite of pets.

He had this way of looking at me that made me feel truly loved. He would follow me all around the house, and it is going to be a great adjustment to not see him tagging along.

We buried him in my daughter Jamiann's garden and put a garden stone on his grave. The stone reads "God Bless This Garden" ...well... He certainly blessed our home with our dear little Junior. Love, Diane


Dear Ann & Diane, I share your feelings and more than just a little bit. In July we lost Dinah, our beautiful, neurotic, shy and sweet Himalayan and the last female member of the menagerie I belong too.

She is buried on Boot Hill, the upper garden named after its first resident a loveable Old English Sheepdog named Old Boot. It’s also the permanent residence of Mr. Kelly, Arthur, Kelly Jr., Magic, Bingo, Nick E. and KubbyKat 1 among too many others. They rest amid Day Lilies and Daisies near a Bay Tree that has grown out of hand and a field of much used herbs.

Despite the fact that Dinah had been ill for some time and it was a blessing for her to finally go, her death was difficult for me. Usually Edward and I share everything together but he was on a trip and so there wasn’t anyone to commiserate with.

We have this unwritten rule that if anything bad or unfortunate happens while one of us away we don’t bring it up until we are face to face again. Why ruin someone’s trip or vacation when there is nothing to be done from a distance?

No, it doesn’t get any easier for a while but we are supposed to grieve over and remember those who helped make our lives better for whatever brief time they were here.

On a happier note our friend and member of the Stanyan staff has his first kitten. A beautiful calico runt, and I do mean runt – she is still being fed with an eye dropper – that was rescued from a dumpster. Ben named his American Shorthair Taco and it was love at first sight and, not incidentally, the cause of some jealousy by the other female in his life. At last report all three were settled in and doing well.

Again Diane and Ann I share the pain of your loss. My love and warm thoughts to both of you, Rod

PETULA & THE LONG HOT SUMMER

Hi Rod, It was so good to have you back with us (on the Flight Plan) this morning. The summer has been rather drab without you words of wisdom at intervals through the week. I hope you have had a great time, although I know you have been busy working, but I'm sure you had some time off. How did the recordings with Petula go? Will we see the fruits of your labours soon? I read somewhere that you may do some concerts with here, so is that a possibility?

Finally, how about some new pictures?

Life here in the UK has been very hot weather wise, during July and August, but that’s nothing to you in CA, but now we are back to our changeable days which is great as far as I'm concerned, cos' I love the changing climate, with sunshine and showers! Now it's time for the kids to go back to school and college, at last, thank goodness! I can get some of my life back now, instead of being taxi driver, organizer, laundry women and problem solver etc! etc! Take care and lots of luv and a big hug, Gloria xxx

Dear Gloria, No time off to speak of and when I have more than a few minutes to spare I do intend to write at some length as to how I spent my summer vacation. For now, let’s just say it was productive.

The Petula Project is complete and wonderful. She does things with my songs that no other vocalist has even attempted. I’ll be in the studio next week mastering the album which it titled “Petula Clark: Solitude & Sunshine, The Songs of Rod McKuen”. I’m too superstitious to announce any projected release date for the album but by way of a prevue a track or two from the sessions will be offered as free downloads on the website and on www.stanyanhouse.com in the near future.

As for concerts? They are being looked into. I love singing with Petula (we even do a couple of duets on the disc) so if appearances together work out we will both be happy. For the next couple of months, you can catch her in Branson with Andy Williams.

Petula is in great voice and I’m as excited about this album as I was about Sinatra’s “A Man Alone.” As for new pictures, Edward has promised to take some. With Affection, Rod

WRITE ON

Dear Rod, You once told me to continue writing, and I did. A song I wrote is being recorded on an album as we speak. The Gaithers have a cousin who does Christian music and my tax man has two jobs ---taxes and writes music and he showed me the list of songs he had on order and there was one for an 8 year old girl and I told him I thought I could do that one for him and I did and he edited it a bit and both our names went on the demo and they are recording it and I'm so happy. How about that? Love You --Dolores

Dear Dolores, CONGRATULATIONS & luv. Rod

ONCE AGAIN SPEAKING OF ANIMALS

In a multiple adressed letter a friend writes:

Okay, everyone. I'm sending this across the nation in hopes of finding a miniature poodle puppy. I'd like to find a male, any color other than black, blue or brown. Parti-colored of any color combination would be wonderful but so would phantom or solid. I would prefer AKC but would consider CKC. Companionship quality. Health certificate necessary. If anyone hears of a mini looking for a good home, I'd appreciate hearing from you.

Enough with designer dogs. Please consider rescuing a puppy or better still an older ‘mutt’ nobody else wants from your local pound. Cheers, Rod

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notable birthdays

Monday 11 September
Patriot Day, USA

Reubin Askew o Alan Bergman o Butch Bouchard o Bear Bryant o Harry Connick Jr. o Cathryn Damon o Kathryn Denny o Brian DePalma o Betsy Drake o Tom Dreesen o Lola Falana o Brad Fischetti o Irene Greenslade o O. Henry o Earl Holliman o Hedy Lamarr o D. H. Lawrence o Kristy McNichol o Amy Madigan o Jessica Mitford o Moby o Joey Olivera o Avro Part o Ariana Richards o  Aura Ripley o Anne Seymour o Alice Tully

Tuesday 12 September

Ben Blue o Miguel de Cervantes o Maurice Chevalier o George Chuvalo o Linda Gray o George Jones o Alfred A. Knopf o John Mauceri o Frank McGee o H. L. Mencken o Yao Ming o Dickie Moore o Ella Mae Morse o Maria Muldaur o Jesse Owens o Neal Peart o Peter Scolari o Paul Walker o Rachel Ward o Dave Washington o Barry White

Rod's random thoughts Some men have proven that any man can grow up and become President - some of those same men have also shown us that not every man elected to the office is capable of being President.

What I see convinces me there is a God. What I cannot see confirms it.

The day will come when we export more bread than bullets. That day we’ll know all there is to know of love.

SOME HEROES / 9-11 FIVE YEARS ON

Some Heroes do not engage, are
passive in the fight. Dying unaware
that any battlefield grew up around them.

Some heroes are just passing through
on their way to work or home, making
love and lunch appointments on cell
phones, in cell block cubicles.

Some heroes whistle on their way to death
caught unawares while polishing politeness
eating or deleting Spam, expiring in delirium,
not unwilling but not knowing, with no final will
tucked into top left-hand drawer.

Some heroes learn to fly without a practice
run, a test on some low country hill. And more
than one young hero never reached a poppy
field because they turned to dust or powder
while God was taking his usual time returning
earth to earth, dust to natural dust.

If the battle comes to them then I insist
heroes are heroes and they need not enlist.
To die without a chance to choose, choice
left to chance makes heroes sure as targets
practiced and then hit by marksman or
marked man in battle gear. Some heroes
good & true become so just by being there.

2 September, 2006 8:AM PDT, Holmby Hills, CA. First publication 9/11/2006

 
    AND FINALLY

Today is the birthday of one of the most gorgeous English Roses ever, Arthur Greenslade’s widow Irene. Happy, Happy Birthday and many more.

Sleep warm and don’t forget to join Ken on Wednesday for his weekly outing.

RM 9 September, 2006 4:14PDT Holmby Hills, CA

 
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