10th & 11th July, 2008

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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A Thought for Today

If hope is all you’ve got, by all means go for it.

 

TO BEGIN WITH

Great holiday, a short but very busy week and it looks to get even busier.

THE EXPERIENCE

One of the questions I get asked a lot is whether or not I ever get tired of meeting people and greeting fans. I mention this because it’s that time again; all day this coming Friday and Saturday I’ll be signing books and records and posing for photographs for The Hollywood Collectors show at the Burbank Airport Marriott Hotel & Convention Center.

So, the fact that I’m willing to show up and ‘meet and greet’ pretty much gives the answer. It’s not even a question of feeling that I owe it to the public by making myself available –– after all, the reasoning might go, if it wasn’t for the fans and those who follow my career; I wouldn’t have much of a career to follow. Fair enough, but I go out of my way to meet people at affairs like this and remain after concerts until the last autograph is signed because I genuinely enjoy the experience, not because I feel I have to. I’m leading a fun and interesting life and I owe it to myself to explore all the possibilities it affords.

I’ve always felt what happens after the show is almost as important as the performance itself. As for personal appearances where a quick handshake and a question or two is about all that’s involved I like that too. It’s nice to know what people are thinking and you’d be surprised how often someone from the past shows up to renew an old friendship or acquaintance. I like to think I make new contacts and friends too. I have never aspired to an insulated or isolated life and it might be a tad late to do so now.

I might feel differently if all that has happened to me through the years was caught by (or even in part resulted from} the glare of paparazzi or looky-lou’s of any sort. When I was starting out there was no such thing as constant press attention –– even if you were a Marilyn Monroe or James Dean. Ms. Monroe and Mr. Dean have gotten far more attention deceased than they did alive and kicking. I know, I was there.

PRESS & PUBLIC

I’ve always had a healthy respect for the press, they do their job and I do mine. With some notable exceptions, I’ve been treated pretty fairly by the The 4th Estate; when I had something to say I gave interviews and when I didn’t want attention my need for privacy was almost always respected.

Can members of the public, or fans –– well meaning or not, be mean? Sure. When two people from different professions, persuasions or whatever rub up against one another sparks are possible if not probable. That’s part of life and being a member of the human race and it isn’t confined to the celebrity / fan turf. The potential for behaving badly is always out there, I ought to know because I do it myself sometimes.

Still, as we all know, it takes very little effort to be nice . . . so much of the time most of us try our best to be on our best behavior. Courtesy is contagious and the more we practice it the better chance we have of it becoming a part of our daily demeanor. Going off the rails doesn’t accomplish much and interrupts the drive to the destination, whatever or wherever.

However, anyone expecting a mud slide or train wreck at an affair I’m involved with might be better served hanging out in the path of Brittany Spears or Hurricane Bertha.

See you at The Marriott.

-RM 7/9/2008

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THURSDAY 10 July

Nick Adams o Arthur Ashe o Saul Bellow o David Brinkley o John Calvin o Carleton Carpenter o Dan DeGaetini o Magda Gabor o John Gilbert o Arlo Guthrie o Fred Gwynne o Jerry Herman o Jean Kerr o Jake LaMotta o Evelyn Laye o Sue Lyon o Frederick Marryat o Carl Orff o Marcel Proust o Mark Shera o Jessica Simpson o Noble Sissle o Virginia Wade o James A. Whistler o Ian Whitcomb

FRIDAY 11 July

John Quincy Adams o Giorgio Armani o Lloyd Bochner o Yul Brynner o Frederick Buechner o Nicolai Gedda o Debbie Harry o Lowell Haver o Susan Seaforth Hayes o Tab Hunter o Mark Lester o Jean-Francois Marmontel o Thomas Mitchell o Lisa Rinna o Marie Serneholt o Brett Somers o Leon Spinks o Suzanne Vega o Harry Von Zell o John Wanamaker o Sela Ward o E.B. White

Rod's random thoughts Love has no hidden highways, as hope hasn't any padlocked doors.

Hypocrisy lurks everywhere, in religion, in politics, around every corner. Don't give it an inch.

There is no such thing as an excess of benevolence.

SUMMER SEQUENCE

The river cuts a gully every bit as deep within the mind as the one it opens in the earth. Set your troubles by; let the water carry them and you to that wide, friendly sea beyond imagination. But all is not imagined. The sun is real and everywhere. Trials become truth. Goals turn round and round until they spin into achievements.

And love? The firm, brown body running down the beach - then gone. The soft, warm cheek that only angels dare bend to touch. The round moon belly of a woman carrying the future just inside her skin. The people old in years who commandeer a park bench, and beyond them the lovers - always the lovers discovering frontiers of gold.

-from "Rod McKuen's Book of Days." 1981.

 
    AND FINALLY

A note to my German friends and readers:

Speaking of the press, as we were a few paragraphs ago, I was interviewed recently by Christophe Dallach of Der Spiegal (Germany’s Time) and tomorrow afternoon I have a portrait sitting with their west coast photographer. Kind of a rush since the article is set to appear in next week’s culture section of the magazine. See what happens if you hang around this universe long enough, you not only end up being a member of The Bear Family but part of German culture.

-RM / Holmby Hills, CA, July 9, 2008 6:15PM PDST

 
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