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A Thought for Today

Deal gently with the absent.


There are many reasons I turn to the Op-Ed page of my favorite newspapers every morning before I start digesting the news on page one. I already know the headline, having seen them on TV the night before; I love opinions whether they conform to my own or challenge them; because Op-Ed pieces usually reflect the news instead of leading it, I’m usually familiar with whatever the talented writers who populate this page are discussing; and, best of all, the aforementioned writers more often than not make sense.

One of my favorite Op-Ed regulars in the New York Times is Thomas L. Friedman. His writing is clear, informative, well thought out and when he decides to put his tongue in one of his firm cheeks he makes me laugh out loud. Here’s an example of his take on Foreign Affairs on October 26, 2001.

WE ARE ALL ALONE - by Thomas L. Friedman

So let me see if I've got this all straight now: Pakistan will allow us to use its bases Mondays, Wednesdays and Fridays — provided we bomb only Taliban whose names begin with Omar and who don't have cousins in the Pakistani secret service. India is with us on Tuesdays and Fridays, provided it can shell Pakistani forces around Kashmir all other days. Egypt is with us on Sundays, provided we don't tell anyone and provided we never mention that we give the Egyptians $2 billion a year in aid. Yasir Arafat is with us only after 10 p.m. on weekdays, when Palestinians who have been dancing in the streets over the World Trade Center attack have gone to bed. The Northern Alliance is with us, provided we buy all its troops new sandals and give U.S. passports to the first 1,000 to reach Kabul.

Israel is with us provided we never question the lunacy of 7,000 Israeli colonial settlers living in the middle of a million Palestinians in the Gaza Strip. Kuwait would like to be with us, it really would, since we saved Kuwait from Iraq, but two Islamists in the Kuwaiti Parliament spoke out against the war, so the emir just doesn't want to take any chances. You understand. The Saudis, of course, want to be with us, but Saudis are not into war-fighting. That's for the household help. Don't worry. Prince Alwaleed has promised to rent us some Bangladeshi soldiers through a Saudi temp agency — at only a small markup.

The Saudi ruling family would love to cooperate by handing over its police files on the 15 Saudis involved in the hijackings, but that would be a violation of its sovereignty, and, well, you know how much the Saudis respect sovereignty — like when the Saudi Embassy in Washington rushed all of Osama bin Laden's relatives out of America after Sept. 11 on a private Saudi jet, before they could be properly questioned by the F.B.I.

And then there's my personal favorite: All our Arab-Muslim allies would love us to get bin Laden quickly, but the Muslim holy month of Ramadan is coming soon and the Muslim "street" will not tolerate fighting during Ramadan. Say, do you remember the 1973 Middle East war, launched by Egypt and Syria against Israel? Remember what that war was called in the Arab world? "The Ramadan war" — because that's when it was started. Oh, well. I guess the Arab world can launch wars on Ramadan, but not receive them.

My fellow Americans, I hate to say this, but except for the good old Brits, we're all alone. And at the end of the day, it's U.S. and British troops who will have to go in, on the ground, and eliminate bin Laden.

Ah, you ask, but why did we have so many allies in the gulf war against Iraq? Because the Saudis and Kuwaitis bought that alliance. They bought the Syrian Army with billions of dollars for Damascus. They bought us and the Europeans with promises of huge reconstruction contracts and by covering all our costs. Indeed, with the money Japan paid, we actually made a profit on the gulf war; Coalitions "R" Us.

This time we'll have to pay our own way, and for others. Unfortunately, killing 5,000 innocent Americans in New York just doesn't get the rest of the world that exercised. In part we're to blame. The unilateralist message the Bush team sent from its first day in office — get rid of the Kyoto climate treaty, forget the biological treaty, forget arms control, and if the world doesn't like it that's tough — has now come back to haunt us.
And who can blame other countries for wanting to shake down U.S. taxpayers when Dick Armey and his greedy band of House Republicans are doing the same thing — pushing a stimulus bill with more tax breaks for the rich, lobbyists and corporations, and virtually nothing for the working Americans who will fight this war?

My advice: Try not to focus on any of this. Focus instead on the firemen who rushed into the trade center towers without asking, "How much?" Focus on the thousands of U.S. reservists who have left their jobs and families to go fight in Afghanistan without asking, "What's in it for me?" Unlike the free-riders in our coalition, these young Americans know that Sept. 11 is our holy day — the first day in a just war to preserve our free, multi-religious, democratic society. And I don't really care if that war coincides with Ramadan, Christmas, Hanukkah or the Buddha's birthday — the most respectful and spiritual thing we can do now is fight it until justice is done.

© Copyright 2001 New York Times. All Rights Reserved

As far as I can remember (not too far some days) this is the first time “The Hills Draw Nearer” from next year’s book “Rusting in the Rain” & 1974’s CD “Speaking of Love” has appeared (below) in a Flight Plan. I rediscovered it in some files Jay had typed and sent to me.

See you tomorrow with a requested “Some of the Best”. Sleep warm.

RM 10/31/01 Previously unpublished

Details of Rod's next appearance can be obtained by following the link below.

"Tap Your Troubles Away" - the music of Jerry Herman

notable birthdays Adam Ant o John Barry o Vincenzo Bellini o Ken Berry o Charles Bronson o William Cullen Bryant o Kate Capshaw o Michael Dukakis o David Eddington o Fred Fairbrass o Bob Feller o Dorian Gossy o Wanda Hendrix o Larry Holmes o Diane Inskeep o Russell Long o Lulu o Dolph Lundgren o Andre Malraux o Terrence McNally o  Dennis Miller o James Reston o Roseanne o Anthony Sarkis o Yitzhak Shamir o Shadoe Stevens o Monica Vitti
Rod's random thoughts Women young or old need liberation from men’s conception of them.

Every advantage has its disadvantage.

Love is more a feeling than a science. Don’t talk it into nothing.


The hills draw nearer
their shadows - like old men
bent over tying shoes
folded over picking up stones.

In the mornings, there are
footprints of the shadows.
Great giant ghosts
that slip to nothing by the noon.

We wanted everything,
new clothes for old clothes
books to save and read when we grew older
               music in the meantime.

You said, there should be dinner,
once a week, out there,
somewhere besides the kitchen.

You wanted pictures
as the years continued passing us
and flowers in a jar.

But we were always out of film,
                       out of sorts,
                       out of change
when things began to change.

On weekday evenings
when the empty diners chime
their ‘Come to Dinner’ chimes
we were always out,
        out of it or felt left out.

And finally
all those pennies saved in empty jars
are not enough to buy a single fine bouquet
                         healthy meal
                             a coat to warm us
when the outside shadows
come along to threaten.

Left alone
without the condiments we wished for
the ghosts come ever nearer.

Ah, but spring was large once
and autumn and the hills
               kept their distance.

–from the CD “Speaking of Love,” 1994

© 1984, 1988, 1994,1999, 2001 by Stanyan Music Group & Rod McKuen. All Rights Reserved
Birthday research by Wade Alexander o Poetry from the collection of Jay Hagan o Coordinated by Melinda Smith
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