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A Thought for Today

Even age and time take on a sameness with age and time.

 

TO BEGIN WITH

My server (the mighty AT&T) has been out of whack so I haven’t been on line for several days. Luckily I have more than enough downloaded mail to fill up a few columns. If your letter hasn’t been answered I’ll get to it as soon as the server decides to cooperate or when I get fed up enough to go through the hassle of investigating a new provider.

Some of today’s letters feel as if the writers have taken a trip down memory lane and that’s fine with me. I enjoy being noticed or remembered or even being glimpsed for the first time, otherwise I’d be off somewhere licking my (or someone else’s) wounds.

.ASK ROD

CHANGE?

Rod, Love reading your website. I met you in the 70s at a bookstore in Minneapolis and gave you my necklace that said "War is not healthy for children and other living things."
Isn't it a shame we still have to think about that?

I have all your books and never tire of reading your poetry. Your books are the only thing that can make me believe romance may still be alive somewhere. But I do agree with you that 'age is better!" Take care and live sweetly. Love and light, Gayle Godfrey


Dear Gayle, over the years (particularly during the 70’a) I must have played nearly every theatre, concert hall, college and university in the Minneapolis/St. Paul area. I have fond memories of Minneapolis and wrote about some of them in a book called “Moment to Moment."

Despite the Vietnam War and its aftermath those times seemed to be simpler and of course we were all younger. Wars go on, seemingly for no good reason and unrest and misunderstandings about everything continues. Still it’s a pretty good life and I continue to believe romance and reason will always win out if enough of us want and need them. Age is better unless you are very young and don’t know about it yet.

Keep on truckin’ Gayle and thanks for the kind words. Warmly, Rod.

ROD’S JUKE BOX

I downloaded a lot of the songs from your site to my media player. Thank you Rod for allowing that. I do have one little question about “Up.”

I was looking at my vinyl albums and on the double LP titled

"Grand Tour" I saw "Up.". It is slightly different then the one on the website? I don't care because I haven't found anything of yours I don't like but I was just curious. (Yeah I know curiosity killed the kitty. I'll take that risk.)

Still loving my Grand Master Rod. Beverly.

Dear Beverly, You got me! What you downloaded from Rod’s Juke Box was the original recording of “Up.” Since it was a new song I was singing it in a studio and had the luxury of having the words on a music stand in front of me. After I’ve lived with one of my songs for a while I often change the words. However, though I haven’t heard it in decades, I’m willing to bet that in the case of the ‘live’ version of “Up” in Grand Tour it’s more likely that I forgot a line or two of the correct lyrics and the audience heard whatever popped into my mind at the time.

As many an audience member familiar with my work can attest I’m no different than many other singer-songwriters when it comes to stumbling over my own words. The substitute lyrics aren’t always gems but with a little practice when the mind goes temporarily blank a singer can become quite adept at ad-libbing something that at least rhymes. Performing in front of a crowd requires no little concentration and I’ve been known to lock on a pair of eyes during a concert and forget more than just words. After all these years the only time it really bothers me is when I’m singing a song by another writer and I flub a line. That’s unforgivable.

I’m glad you like the downloads Beverly and Eric our Sound Guru is always after me to provide more so there will be more downloads sooner rather than later. Best Regards, Rod

(Webmaster’s Note: To download selections from Rod’s Juke Box and even the complete book, “Caught in the Quiet” check out the site map.)

HEART TO HEART

Mr. McKuen, I have written a book- the title is above. I just wanted you to know that on the back cover I made reference to you and I hope you don't mind. May I quote? "Began writing Poetry and Prose and meanderings about events, people, places and things in the early 80's. Understands that only Frost can write like Frost. McKuen writes like McKuen, the same for all the other gifted and talented Poets. My work is simply my work, whatever that might be Hopefully, many will enjoy and relate to it. "

I started reading Stanyan Street and Other Sorrows and then all the work by you that I could find. Needless to say, my book is in large part because of the Rod McKuen style of which there is no equal. Thank you so much for all your contributions in allowing all of us to see into your heart and sharing that with us. A true Admirer, Charles Crisp


Dear Charles, Hard to imagine anyone –– poet or not –– being offended by inclusion in a paragraph with Robert Frost. Good luck with your book and congratulations on the hard work and follow thru that it must have taken to shepherd it into print. Lots of people talk about writing books but few get around to actually doing it.

If I have influenced your writing that pleases me a lot and now it’s your turn to be of use to the next poet. Much has happened in my life since Stanyan Street & Other Sorrows was first published but not so much that I don’t still identify with every memory set down in its pages. I still write every day and I’m sure the same can be said for you. I don’t publish or show as much of my work as I once did because the more I write the more I worry about getting it right.

Thanks for your thoughtful note. With Affection, Rod

CLASS OF 68 REUNION

Rod: You were a very important part of our high school and college careers. We are having our 40th class reunion next weekend. I am doing a tribute to our classmates who have died. I would like to end the slide show with a poem. Do you have one of your poems in mind that would be a perfect finale? Thanks in advance for your help. Connie

Dear Connie, Thanks for the honor. Off hand I'd say "Old Friend" might work. If you don't have the words you can go to the bottom of this page and click on Flight Plan Archive. We have a built in Goggle & if you type in "Old Friend" a list of places where the poem has been used will come up, click on any one of them for the words. I know it has been reprinted twice this year so it should be easy to find.

Happy, Happy reunion & give your schoolmates my regards.
Warmly, Rod

UNDER THE TABLE WITH JUDY & FRIENDS

Greetings Rod, When I was a young child, geeze 40 plus years ago…. my mother Judy and her best friend Meridee would spend “HOURS” listening to your albums, drinking wine, with candles burning, which of course meant – I also would listen to you for hours! My mother passed away a few years ago, last week Meridee and I were sharing our memories of her, and in Meridee's email she wrote,

“ We went to concerts together, took our kids to movies together, sat under the dining room table on top of her vacuum cleaner listening to Rod McKuen records together and crying. I forget exactly why it was necessary that we sat under her table, except that she had a very small living room.”

That brought back many memories of your music and those memories made me wonder…. Whatever happened to you!! So, I am delighted to see that you are alive and well. I forwarded your website link on to Meridee and mostly I just wanted to take a moment to say thank you for sharing yourself with us. THANK YOU! Jody - Judy’s middle daughter

Dear Jody, Yep, I’m still here and it is nice to know that even after ten years of being on the web people are still discovering my site. Hope you’ll make a habit of dropping by from time to time.

Thanks for sharing your memories and those of Meridee’s and her times under the table with your mom. I have a special place in my heart for moms who turned their kids on to my work. Under the table seems like as good a place as any to hear my stuff and I’ll have to try it some time. The cats occasionally perk up from under or behind something or other when I play a test pressing of a new disc, otherwise they only pay attention to me at feeding time or when it suits them. And, of course nearly everything goes better with candlelight and wine. I certainly don’t mind being used as the occasion for a little refreshment.

Let me be the one to say Thanks, Jody, because I love being Googled or Jeeved or browsed however. So I appreciate you taking the time to look up what I hope is an old friend. Cheers and more, Rod.

INFORMATION PLEASE

Hello: The poem I am trying to find is titled "Information". It is a poem about war. The first line is "How will we tell those dead soldiers and these men dying now that the war's been won?"

Is it in a book that I could purchase? Can it be found on Google? I have not been able to find it even using the Google Advanced Search option.

Thank you for any data you can tell me about how to purchase the poem or find it on the Internet.Thelma McCoy


Dear Thelma, Though I wrote “Information” several wars ago (in Korea in 1953) it was finally published in "And to Each Season" issued by Simon & Schuster in 1972. A few copies of the book are still available from Stanyanhouse.com

Looking at it again I felt it might be apt for now so I have selected it as today’s poem. You’ll find it below. Thanks for reminding me of it Thelma. All my best, Rod

RM 8/1/2008

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Saturday, 2 August

James Baldwin o Jeremy Castle o Wes Craven o Hallie Eisenberg o Edward Furlong o Joe Harnell o Judge Lance Ito o Victoria Jackson o Paul Laxalt o Myrna Loy o Gary Merrill o Helen Morgan o Carroll O’Connor o Peter O’Toole o Mary-Louise Parker o John Shirley Quick o Kevin Smith o Beatrice Straight o Jack Warner

Sunday, 3 August

Stanley Baldwin o Tony Bennett o Ray Bloch o Tom Brady o Rupert Brooke o Alex Cord o Dolores Del Rio o Les Elgart o Frances Gaar o John Gunther o Jean Hagen o James Hetfield o P.D. James o John Landis o Bethel Leslie o Elsa Martinelli o Jed Mattes o Marilyn Maxwell o Jay North o Gordon Scott o Martin Sheen o Martha Stewart o Leon Uris

Rod's random thoughts To write it out is to let it go.

In love or out of love, we are suspended as in a limbo created by the presence of or lack of someone else.

The road to riches is often paved with bad intentions.

INFORMATION

How will we tell
those dead soldiers
and those men dying now
that the war’s been won?

Won at tables
by the old men of both sides,
giving this point -
              taking that.
Erasing paragraphs
just as easily as they taught us
how to win lead medals
for erasing lives.

We’ll all wake up
as semi-angels
if we wake at all.
The fighting done,
the winning done,
we'll find we chose
the right side after all.
The papers and the radio
will take care
        to tell us that.

The other side
has papers, too,
how fortunate that most of us
have just enough equipment
to understand our tongues only.

I know I should be grateful
to be fighting and God-fearing
                        on the side of right,
living in one nation
indivisible under God.

But I have known some men
                                  to wonder
though I have never heard one ask
what the enemy believes in.

-from “And to Each Season,” 1972

 
    AND FINALLY

Just another reminder for those of you planning to attend the All Requests Performance in November: If there’s something special you’d like to hear let me know as soon as possible so it can be scheduled and rehearsed.

Sleep warm and join me Monday for a new feature.

RM, Holmby Hills, CA / August 1, 2008 9:34PM PDST

 
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