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Rod at Dos Vidas. Photo by Thomas Kist from the 2006 Arjan Vlakveld film “Rod McKuen: A Man Alone” for Netherlands Public Television. Photo ©2006, 2007 by Stanyan Audio Video Archives. All Rights Reserved.

A Thought for Today

Be yourself. That's more than enough no matter what anyone else thinks.

 

TO BEGIN WITH

Off to Fry’s today to pick up a new printer, then to my favorite Burbank emporium Costco. A shopping cart full of fresh veggies topped the list of musts and browsing the DVD section I found a Maggie Smith boxed set (four of her BBC performances including Suddenly Last Summer co-starring Rob Lowe and her 1972 appearance as Portia in The Merchant of Venice. Now to find time to dig into it. Speaking of time I ran out of it just before getting to a note from our Eric regarding the Andy Warhol Diaries.

This one will have to wait till next week’s Ask Rod because it involves hunting down my own 1981 diary and comparing his take on a certain April day to mine. My recollection of lunch at The Factory that afternoon differs a great deal from his. Meanwhile here’s a picture of Andy and me that Edward snapped later the same year outside Lincoln Center. We were on our way to see George Burns in concert and as you can see I was wearing a tee shirt suitable for the occasion.

On to today’s mailbag.

.ASK ROD

STONEHENGE & STUFF

I have several of your books and vinyl albums but have great difficulty finding the CD's of some of the 60's recordings. I could listen to your music all day and into the night without ever tiring of the beauty of what I hear. You have a soothing timbre to your voice for me. I am a heart patient and I feel my blood pressure lower just listening to you. My copy of Pastorale, the two-album set, has wonderful shots of you and Mr. Kelly in a field. What has happened to Mr. Kelly? Again thank you for the wonder of the music. Beverly Gnau

Dear Beverly, Thank You. I pride myself on dealing with matters of the heart so it’s especially nice to hear from a heart patient.

The photographs for Pastorale and the booklet that came with it were taken over forty years ago and while his master is very much still with us Mr. Kelly has long been a resident of the place where good doggies go. To give it some perspective most of the photos were taken at Stonehenge and in those days you could climb the fence and walk right on to the grounds of the historic edifice. And what an experience it is to visit this mysterious edge of antiquity.
While we were there on the photo shoot and picnicking in a field nearby they were testing a new kind of commercial aircraft. It was a co-development of England and France and called The Concord. In later years I was to travel on it many times and every flight whether from London, Paris, Rio or New York was a celebration. Ah, the good old days when flying was fun, and not just on The Concord.

McKuen books, CD’s, LP’s and songbooks can be difficult to find but not if you know where to look. The best source for all my ‘stuff’ is still Stanyanhouse.com. While the website doesn’t list everything, if you’re looking for something in particular try writing Ben –– the head honcho. He’s pretty knowledgeable and can usually dig up requests. We sell nearly as many LP’s as CDs, yep, vinyl is back –– or never really went away for lots of us. Our best-selling LP’s are Pastorale, The Black Eagle and Frank Sinatra’s album of my songs, A Man Alone.

Stay well Beverly and thanks again for your thoughts. Warmly, Rod.

FOR SC

Dear Rod, My sister passed away, aged 27, in 1984.

Although the vicar did not know Susan personally he read a poem at the funeral which I felt summed her up. He gave all in my family a copy of the poem indicating it was written by you.

All these years later, I still carry the very tatty piece of paper in my wallet. I feel it is time to type it up properly and frame it. I would like to know the name of the poem.

The vicar took the liberty to change a couple of lines to make it more appropriate.

''I do not know
what is more beautiful
thank your black hair
on a white pillow* [framing your face]
I have thought about it all afternoon
and decided not even butterflies or children
or the blossoms on the hill above the beach
can compare

If I had money
I would not buy a comb, or a red ribbon
to decorate it

Instead I might charter worlds
so you could walk in them
and everyone could see you hair.''

Many thanks to you, Debbie Beedle


Dear Debbie, Thanks for sharing the memory of the memorial service for your sister Susan. Even at this late date I send my condolences because I’m sure you still miss her and think of her often.

The poem is entitled for S.C. and is contained in my second book of poetry Stanyan Street & Other Sorrows. I’m honored that I was part of the celebration of Susan’s life and I guess I can’t complain if a vicar changes a word or two of one of my poems. All my best to you Debbie. Kindest Regards, Rod.

AN UPCOMING APPEARANCE

Rod: I was lucky enough to buy your Carnegie Hall concert album years ago and it is truly my favorite album of all my CD's. Mike Tomory

Dear Mike, Nothing cooking in the way of projected Midwest or East Coast Appearances, but Monday 6/2 I'll be announcing an upcoming West Coast engagement. Thanks for asking and all the best, Rod

OVER THE LINE?

Mr. McKuen, The enclosure contains a copy of an email I sent you more than 10 days ago. I assure you that it is exactly what it claims to be; an attempt to insure that I am not plagiarizing you.

I must consider that you must have had even more innocent appearing approaches, which turn out to be attempts to gain your endorsement. Again, I wish to assure you that this is not the case. The intent is exactly as the previous email indicated. I do not want to use something that is not mine as original. However, I am on a fixed income and cannot afford to go out and purchase every copy of your work prior to 1975.

I will add that, even though I write this as if Mr. McKuen were reading it, I harbor no fantasy that this is the case. So would the reader of this email please take the few minutes it would require to review the two short stanzas (which constitute a small portion of the work) and send a short reply. As stated in the prior communication, I am willing to respond appropriately if this is copycat work.

Please offer me the courtesy of a reply. Ron Kufner

Dear Ron, Sorry but I didn't receive your original letter. It probably got trapped in the SPAM filter, I've got a pretty good one and unless the sender is in my address book I often lose correspondence.

As you probably know from reading the notice posted on my website I don't read unpublished manuscripts that are sent to me. There are lots of reasons for this but the paramount one involves the volume of stuff that arrives by post and e-mail. There just isn't time to wade through it all and if I read one it wouldn’t be fair not to read all of the others.

Because of your concern I did have someone knowledgeable about my work look at your poem and his verdict is that you inadvertently picked up several lines of mine and paraphrased others.

It’s easier than you might imagine to be original, Ron, it’s called thinking. Sorry for the bad news but you did ask for an opinion. Good luck on your writing Ron and all of your other endeavors. As for purchasing all of my works, even I can’t afford to do that, but that’s why God and municipal taxes gave us libraries. Kindest Regards, Rod

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Saturday 31 May

Fred Allen o Don Ameche o Tom Berenger o John Bonham o Clint Eastwood o Chris Elliot o Denholm Elliott o Rainer Werner Fassbinder o Sharon Gless o Gregory Harrison o Jim Hutton o Joe Namath o Henry "Scoop" Jackson o Johnny Paycheck o Norman Vincent Peale o Kyle Secor o Brooke Shields o Lea Thompson o Shirley Verrett o Prince Rainier of Monoco o Walt Whitman o Peter Yarrow

Sunday 1 June

Johnny Bond o Pat Boone o Clive Brook o Joan Caulfield o Dean Chance o John Drinkwater o Morgan Freeman o Andy Griffith o Ty Hardin o Lisa Hartman o Cleavon Little o Rev. Ike o John Masefield o Marilyn Monroe o Frank Morgan o Alanis Morissett o Molly Picon o Jonathan Pryce

Rod's random thoughts Some of us who sleep alone are like abandoned boats.

Each man’s needs should far exceed his grasp, or what are needs for?

Love cannot be said aloud too often or spoken in silence too many times.

TRAVEL TIME

Placing my hand upon your shoulder
and slowly with my other hand
taking yours to lead you
toward our private heaven
                            we begin to move
Clocks not wound, schedules slighted,
we start.

I care not what the populace cautions
or gives warning to. Wide smiles I return
in kind, because the kindness you bring
forward to our widened friendship
spreads and validates, verifies our union.

Songs you make by smiling, jigs you
dance by lying still, oceans we leap
in adagio by looking at them only
from the heart’s bright windows.

-from Watch for the Wind, 1983. Major revisions 5/28/2008

 
    ALMOST THE LAST WORD

From Riverton, Wyoming (have great memories of this lovely little town) Linda Becker reports:

The last man I turned on was Mr. Coffee.‘

Know how you feel Linda, my last liaison was with Mrs. Dash. Spicy.

AND FINALLY

Want a reason to celebrate this weekend? It’s only three weeks to the Summer Solstice.

RM Holmby Hills CA 5/30/2008 4:24AM PDST

 
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